I have the 333xl. I played with it weekly live for 2 years. No problems at all. I got mine after the faulty connectors killing the amps. You don’t have to worry about it anymore. The only thing I don’t like about it is that the knobs are plastic. They don’t feel as sturdy as metal knobs. But other then tactile issues, I think it sounds great for the price. You mentioned you have a daughter now though? The amp is 120 watts, and it is LOUD. If that isn’t an issue, then forget I said anything about it.
If you are looking at doing nothing more then basic recording, I recommend Audacity. It is extremely basic, but it gets the job done if all you are looking to do is mic -> computer. Another program I have looked at is Reaper. It is a fully equipped DAW and has anything you could need. It is much cheaper then say, Pro Tools, and that is what I would get if you need more features then Audacity.
edit: Disregard the Audacity suggestion… I misread the digital drums part.
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